The day we got married was the hottest of the year so far; 3rd July 2010, I remember the sweat trickling down my back (yum) as I walked up the aisle to the sound of the Wannadies. We've never had much money; we don't earn a great deal, and we're not great at saving either, so everything was done on a strict budget. My dress was £200 from eBay (never worn, it still had the tags attached - the previous owner had bought two as she couldn't decide between them), the Husband's wedding suit came from Paul Smith, where I worked at the time (skinny fit blue cord, I still love it now!), the flowers were from a local silk flower mill and we had a buffet at a country pub. The wedding cake consisted of three layers bought from Asda, stacked precariously by my Mum and I and then decorated with sugar hearts and flowers, and we did little bags of sweets as favours. It was a fuckload of work, but we managed to do everything for £2,000, then went home at the end of it all, watched Paranormal Activity and ate fish and chips. Then we went to Brighton for three days for our honeymoon.
I've got pretty clear ideas about how I want everything to look; minimal fuss and minimal effort - basically, just a giant party. The only thing I've been stumped with so far is the invitations; for our wedding, I printed out the words and then inserted them into little cards with illustrations of teacups on. Simple, quick and effective. But this time, I'm not really sure what to do; it's not a wedding, so what do you write inside? Do I need to send save-the-date cards? Do you even send invitations, or should I just create a Facebook event?! I'm a bit of a stationary geek, so I definitely want to send something - the lovely folks at printed.com have a great range which you can add your own artwork and lettering to really easily, and I'm quite tempted to have a go at that. To be honest, I
Lastly, now we've decided to actually get on with saving and planning, the first thing I did was make a Pinterest board (duh!) to keep track of everything. If you're already a follower - sorry in advance for all the wedding spam coming your way!
Follow Victoria Haynes: The Owl and the Accordion's board Weddings and Blessings on Pinterest.
This is a collaborative post.